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- "A life without a bit of craziness is not worth living". - I'm a thinker, even though I often live life with less thinking. - "Rules are made to be broken."

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

My Daily Bug

Do you ever wonder why people waste so much time trying to hurt others and so little actually helping each other with no ulterior motive? We are but a second in the history; most of us will not even leave a trace of their passing through this space. Yet these games in which we race to be on top occupy so much of our time... We fail to realize that, at the end of the day, there is no winner if we don't win together. "Survival of the fittest" only has a reason if there will be two survivors in the end; otherwise, the final result - after all the "entertainment" is done - is simple: death/ extinction. It makes no sense. Shouldn't "survival instinct" be about SURVIVING? Instead of offering solutions, and true friendship, and ...just help - without any other expectations - we relish in finding new tricks and ways to stop caring. The lack of care and complete selfishness of some ... well, that just bugs me!
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The idea that "relationships suddenly don't work" although they "worked" just fine for years and years... just bugs me. Main problem with today's society is that the core of the family is not what it used to be. We are now just spoiled teenagers who believe that life will always give us another chance, because it always has in the past. So, why "waste" your time being there for the one you chose through the "worse", when there's a life full of fun out there to be lived? Well, for one: because it is the trying times that make a family a unit. I mean, how would it be if one enlisted for the army for the free college and all the other perks, but when it came down to actually fighting a war they would just quit and say "This is too hard; I signed up for the army, not for the actual shooting and ducking business". Granted, a relationship/a family doesn't have to be like "going to war", but when you live with someone for years, hard times will happen. Seems like divorce is far too common and broken promises, broken families are becoming the new normal. The easiness many give up on the idea of FAMILY with ... well, that just bugs me!